Accept yourself

I read a blog about a transgender woman who telling about resistance of change. Instead of getting information about resistance of change, I only get some rant about how her 'gender group' is rejected by other people in her country. I won't disclose any information about her and her blog. I don't  want to be accused as someone who try to defame her. If you want know about her, try to google transgender woman with 'resistance of change' article.

From my point of view, as a normal man and as a christian, when you dislike your natural body you're already reject your very self. Being a transgender only means that you reject yourself. Reject your gift from God (if you believe in God). You must accept whatever your body are. Whatever anything attach with it. It's your body where you're soul dwell. If you reject it, you're soul will reject it too. I don't mean that anyone that born with uncomplete body or born without limb should accept their body state and do nothing with it, eventhough there are somebody that accept it with their full heart.

When you become a transgender one, you have set your 'eternal' rejection for yourself in your body and soul. Maybe you don't realize it. But every one near you will feel your rejection aura. Every one know that you have reject yourself. Rejection of your very being don't have any relationship with unresistance of change. Did you must change your body to go with the change? Absolutely not. You change your mind not your body.

After you rejecting yourself, how can you hoping other people not to reject you?. You must accept your body whatever it is. If you want to change it, change it mentally not physically. Your mind is the most valuable from yourself not your body.